Wednesday, November 14, 2012

A lot to learn about my parenting style

I am really trying to figure how to handle a ten year old fits and anger.  It amazes me how calm my husband is and I am the one that gets ticked off and then makes things worse.  My hubby gave me some sound advice and the funny thing is...it's the same things that I do to him when he is throwing his fits..funny and yes, it finally clicked.  Big breath and just removing myself from the situation..and guess what? That is what I taught in my parenting classes all those years...really...I don't know about myself. I think I need to take some time to think and ponder more often. Time for me. Looking back just over this last month, I have not had a chance to even breathe...my goal is that I leave for at least a half hour every week to do what mi want to do and take that time to ponder and think of ways for improvement.  Done deal!

Monday, October 15, 2012

Old tv shows and what we learn from them

I am sitting downstairs and tam is in bed....dale has gun smoke on the big screen.  He is so in love with these shows. He is starting to talk in his southern accent and telling me that by these tv shows he has learned to ride a horse, hate snakes, learn true grit...I am laughing my hiney off. He really cracks me up sometime.  Like you can learn how to ride a horse on tv...really? Really love my hubbinesss.

Update

Things have been going well. It is a real learning process for sure. Dale is getting ready to retire. It is a big change for our family. He is still really young and will still need to be employed.   He is really worried that it may take a while for him to get a job in this economy. I pray everyday that the right job will appear. I know it is a matter of being patient.  It's still a rough process. dale and I have been called to scouts.  I am really excited and happy that dale and I are holding a calling together.  It will require a lot of work however we only have one scout at this time. I am happy to spend more time with him and doing boy things.

Saturday, October 13, 2012

Deep breathes

Lately I have learned that taking deep breathes is all I can do.  Having a ten year old in our life has really tested my patients. The pre teens are upon us and so is the attitude.  It has been quite a ride that is for sure. I hope that it will get easier, however not sure that is going to happen. Taking deep breathes and slowly exhale and repeating..relax seems to really help me think before I speak. I find that is my best way to settle the battle.  Don't get me wrong, I love being a mom, and I would not trade it.  There are just times I wish I could take a timeout and relax before I respond to her.  One day at a time. Wow..can u tell its been a long day today..?

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Flying off the handle...hum..

Have you ever noticed that some people fly off the handle when you ask a simple question and it becomes this crazy thing.  That happened today when my coworker asked a simple question and this person stood up coming unglued.  Sometimes people need to just need to take a chill pill and relax. I don't think enough people realize that life is way to short to get in a huff.  This year has been a rough year for me.  I love the end product, however it has really changed my prospective on what to get upset about.  We all have our bad moments..believe me I have had my share and I am not perfect.  I just want the world to stop and be greatful for what they have, whether it be lots or small.  Then choose to take a brief moment to stop and think, then move on.
Easier said than done, I understand.  Take a challenge and see how life is.  I find myself relaxed a lot more and easing through life with less turmoil.  By the way how are things going with the thank you cards...take the challenge to thank a person once a week by mailing a card. It will not only make a difference their life but yours also.

Monday, September 24, 2012

Dream weaver hit me again

Dreams have always been interesting to me.  Sometime I have really scared dreams and then there are times like last night that were scarey   and funny.  Tam and I were living in a very high security fifty story building and there were people who were trying to kill us. Dale was always teaching us how to defeat the enemy. He was sent out on a mission and we were left on our own. Tam and I were successful in beating down the enemy and everyone was congratulating us and we had made this chocolate statue of Tom cruise and he heard about it. He was in the building and wanted to meet with us,we were so excited.  We were looking down the fifty stairs and waiting for him to arrive..all of a sudden there was a pulley thing and a box with a miniature Tom cruise in it..weird!

Friday, September 21, 2012

I promised

Ok I promised I would keep my blog updated and I will do at least a small post per day or week. I have been thinking a lot lately about being and remaining positive. It seems so hard for today's population. On the news you hear one positive and then all this negative.  This  world may be so much better off if we started thinking about the positive and not the negative. It's election time and all you hear is about the bad a person has done..my question to that if everyone is not perfect, and that is why we are here on this earth...how do you expect the person running for office to be perfect and make all the right decisions all the time. Can't please everyone, that is a different topic and won't go there.  All I am saying is how nice would it be to bring back positivity and thinking the good in people and not the bad or negative.

I really try to be a positive person, I pride myself on my ability to think on the bright side. Don't get me wrong, I have my moments.  I heard about this book called a thank you card everyday. This guy was having a rough life and decided to hand thank you cards out to random people 365 days. He said not only did that make a huge difference in his life but others.  I have tried to do a thank you card once a week or more if I could. It has increased my positivity and brought me closer to my customers and coworkers. I just wanted to have my say. I believe we all have freedom of choice and I feel that we all need to start being more positive with that freedom.  Enough said. Have a great night and thank you for reading.  Please feel free to leave comments..remember to be positive..

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Finally!

I now have a computer of sorts to do my blogging and I have so to talk about.  Isolde my motorcycle and bought an iPad. Lil sad about no motorcycle hower I really excited to start blogging because life has been busy, frustrating and wonderful.  So I will try to do the best I can to update and add pictures later.