Deep breathes

Lately I have learned that taking deep breathes is all I can do.  Having a ten year old in our life has really tested my patients. The pre teens are upon us and so is the attitude.  It has been quite a ride that is for sure. I hope that it will get easier, however not sure that is going to happen. Taking deep breathes and slowly exhale and repeating..relax seems to really help me think before I speak. I find that is my best way to settle the battle.  Don't get me wrong, I love being a mom, and I would not trade it.  There are just times I wish I could take a timeout and relax before I respond to her.  One day at a time. Wow..can u tell its been a long day today..?